Wednesday, June 11, 2008


This is the adorable cake Yum Bunnies Cakery made for the woman who writes for www.askdoglady.com. This delicious dessert is a banana cake topped with caramel buttercream. The dogs featured are a Yorkie, a West Highland Terrier, and Labradoodle. I love the pawprints design on the side of the cake.

New Movie Being Filmed in My Neighborhood


They are filming a new movie The Surrogates, a futuristic sci-fi thriller with Bruce Willis, literally a block away from my apartment. I haven't seen Bruce Willis yet, but this is a picture of him on the set. He looks ridiculous in that blond wig.

Cure for the Marital Headache?

NY Times Article

Today's New York Times features an article about two couples who decided to cure their waning sex lives with a radical solution: having sex every night. They also decided to write about their marital rendezvous in their new books called, "Just Do It" and "365 Nights". These seem to be one of the many books in a new genre of self-help literature geared toward couples whose marital sex lives are less than perfect.

"To many spouses, “married sex” may sound like an oxymoron. And “married-with-children sex” may sound like that elusive antimatter. Indeed, reigniting a couple’s desire for each other has fueled an entire therapeutic industry — from Kinsey to Dr. Ruth to Redbook. According to a 2004 study, “American Sexual Behavior,” by the National Opinion Research Center at the University of Chicago, married couples have intercourse about 66 times a year. But that number is skewed by young marrieds, as young as 18, who couple, on average, 109 times a year.

Either way, those statistics put the Mullers and Browns in Olympic-record territory. That they thought a sex marathon would reinvigorate their marriages might say as much about the American penchant for exercise and goal-setting as it does about the state of romance.

But the couples may also be on to something. “There’s a strong relationship between rating your marriage as happy and frequency of intercourse,” said Tom W. Smith, who conducted the “American Sexual Behavior” study. “What we can’t tell you is what the causal relationship is between the two. We don’t know whether people who are happy in their marriage have sex more, or whether people who have sex more become happy in their marriages, or a combination of those two.”

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Gregory Crewdson

Gregory Crewdson is best known for his conceptual photography of small New England towns, using elaborate set ups and lighting as if he were filming a movie. His photographs are haunting and surreal. Each character seems frozen in time as if some significant event has taken place.




"Girls Gone Skank"


In today's issue of BU Today, there's an interesting article featuring the author and Assistant Professor of Communications Patrice Oppliger, of a new book titled, "Girls Gone Skank". Great title if you ask me. She discusses the prevalence of sexuality amongst the young girls of the "Girls Gone Wild" generation.

"Patrice Oppliger has three words to describe the trend of marketing makeup, sexy lingerie, and spa days for the prepubescent set: girls gone skank. It’s the title of the College of Communication assistant professor of communication’s new book, which explores what Oppliger calls the “self–sexual exploitation” of women.

She spent several years looking at the ways women were portrayed in the media — and the ways they choose to portray themselves, or their children, on the Web or in beauty pageants. Her conclusion? Even as women experience unprecedented social and professional empowerment, there is more sexual exploitation, and it begins at progressively younger ages. She speaks about Girls Gone Skank with BU Today.

BU Today: How did you become interested in this topic?
Oppliger: I saw this tiny little girl, about nine, with those Juicy Couture sweatpants on, with the Juicy logo across her behind. I just wanted to stop her parents and say, “What are you thinking? Attention pedophiles, come look at my daughter’s ass.” Then I drove by a Hooters and saw this sign for kids eat free night. And I started thinking about girls and women and sexuality.

Then I started looking at a phenomenon like Girls Gone Wild and what’s happening to our culture: the feminist movement worked so hard to get us equal rights and advancement for women, and then these young women with so many opportunities are showing their breasts to get attention. It used to be men who were exploiting women, but now it’s women who are exploiting themselves. We’ve built this culture of getting attention any way we can — even if it’s negative attention.

How did it start?
There are several hypotheses. One is that it’s marketing — the fashion industry. For the older generation, dressing sexy was a way of rebelling against their parents, but now the marketers are selling the sexualized clothes to the children and to the parents, and obviously somebody’s buying them. I’ve talked to parents who say it’s hard to buy decent clothes, because so many of the options are booty shorts and crop tops. There’s a real pressure there for everybody to conform.

It also might be the millennial generation; there’s become an emphasis on kids and making them happy. So parents became more indulgent. There’s this idea of, “I want to give my children everything I didn’t get.” So if parents wanted to dress sexier younger and their parents didn’t let them, they let their kids do it.

You interviewed young women who’ve participated in Girls Gone Wild–style videos, mothers who let their daughters dress provocatively, and people at strip clubs. How do they characterize their behavior?
There was quite a bit of defensiveness in some women I talked to, who said, “It’s not that bad; we know what we’re doing.” Their justification is, “I’m just showing how liberated I am; this is my sexuality and I want to flaunt it.” I think it’s male attention. Things like the MTV spring break shows have generated this atmosphere that this is what girls should be doing.

But a lot of the attitude was, “Our generation’s OK, but it’s my younger brother or younger sister I’m worried about.” We also discussed MySpace pages — they’re really outrageous in a certain age group, 13 and 14, but when they’re 17 and 18 it’s not that bad any more. The older ones look at that behavior as something they did in high school.

Do you think that means they’ll get past this aggressively sexualized phase earlier?
I don’t know if they’re truly past it — I wonder what form it will take as this generation gets older. I think there’s always been a pendulum swinging back and forth — if you look at the 1960s, women weren’t wearing bras, and in the ’70s there was this sexuality of the disco era. But I think now the marketers are involved. In the past, it was coming from the women themselves, saying, “I don’t want to be put down by this patriarchal system.” But now there’s such a dictate from the fashion industry that it’s not even a rebellion. Wearing sexy clothes is not rebelliousness today.

And the manufacturers don’t really care — their attitude is, “What’s the next thing we can push on them?”

So is there any hope of turning the tide, or will the girls gone skank trend progress?
It’s interesting, because the research shows there hasn’t been a really big spike in teenage sexual activity, and teen pregnancy is actually down. Cheerleading outfits are getting sexier and female athletes’ uniforms are getting sexier; it’s so pervasive in all these different areas — but it’s going on at a time when women are dominating college admissions.

I’m also wondering what Hillary Clinton’s presidential campaign will mean in juxtaposition to this trend. This is a time in our history when we had the first serious woman presidential candidate, and lots of people were coming out of the woodwork to talk about the sexist attitudes that linger in this country — it was sort of an island in the midst of all this sexualization.

So these young women expect to get ahead, but at the same time, they’re using their sexuality to get attention in their social lives. I wonder if they will be able to separate the ideas that “this is me in my school, or workplace” and “this is me in my life.”


Great article. I especially like this quote, "I’ve talked to parents who say it’s hard to buy decent clothes, because so many of the options are booty shorts and crop tops." Where are these parents shopping for their children?!! I have never walked into a store and couldn't find anything to wear because all they sold were booty shorts. It doesn't happen. Maybe if you frequent Strippers R' Us, but most stores that sell girls' clothing do not even have booty shorts. It's a ridiculous statement, and it just shows that these parents aren't really even going to the store to buy clothes; they're giving their daughters' money and telling them to pick something up.

This is just one part of the bigger problem. Girls dress in a sexual manner to get attention. Most of today's young girls are from divorced families, broken homes, or live with parents who are too busy for them because of their careers. They are desperately searching for love and positive reinforcement. Parents are out of touch with their young daughters because they choose to be. If you don't want your thirteen year-old dressing like a porn star, then take away the booty shorts and the low rise jeans. You're the parent, so act like one. Start by telling your daughters how smart they are, how pretty they look, but most importantly tell them how proud you are of them.

Friday, June 6, 2008

Choke: The Movie


Choke, the cult classic by Chuck Palahniuk is now a film by Fox Searchlight, slated for release in September, directed by Clark Gregg and starring Sam Rockwell as Victor, the sex addict who every night scams restaurants patrons by pretending to choke. I loved the book, but it's definitely not for the faint of heart. It's a pervert's wet dream. There's a ton of sex and perverse language, but it's also very funny and extremely entertaining. Victor is a great character because as much as you want to hate him for the horrible things he does, you can't. I'm excited they made this crazy book into a film. I'm also curious to see how it compares to Palahniuk's book.

The poster features Victor choking on the figure of a miniature woman. It's very James Bond actually. Interesting marketing. Also, apparently the studio is promoting this film with anal beads, which appear in a pivotal scene in the book. Whatever happened to keychains and t-shirts to promote a film? I actually think this is a great marketing ploy. The people who are familiar with this book or who will enjoy this movie will get the joke. It's slightly perverted, but it's also a funny gimmick.

Check out the movie trailer:

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Who Were the Ad Wizards Who Came Up with This One??



Isn't that why they make herbal tea? Who is going to buy this product? This product is said to be geared towards the hip hop community. I think if a hip hop artist wants to "slow their roll", they'll roll a big joint, right?